Why “Callapidder Days”
So, why “Callapidder Days?” When my ten-year-old son, C., was learning to talk, he had his own language, to a large degree. We worked to patiently and gently help him arrive at correct words (”car” instead of “mmmm,” for instance). But as he got older, I started feeling a little nostalgic, and I wanted to hold on to a few of his cute-isms. One such word was “callapidder” - caterpillar, for you laymen. I never corrected him when he said callapidder, hoping it would last indefinitely, but sadly, he eventually figured out on his own that the correct pronunciation was caterpillar. However, for years, he still *almost* said callapidder every now and then, and it always made me smile.
So - now you know the origin of callapidder, but why use it in my blog? A caterpillar always reminds me of change. He hasn’t changed yet, but he’s going to, and he’s always working toward that end. Eventually, he will create his chrysalis and buckle down to metamorphose into something new. And me - I feel like that too. As if I’m always working toward, moving toward a change. I see so much in myself that needs work, that calls for transformation. And I hope that the things I do are preparing me for the changes - little and big - that God has in store for me. So, every day… is a Callapidder Day… working toward change, [hopefully] ready for and open to change, growing into something new.









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That was very profound!
I didn’t know you had a blog..it is WAY MORE AWESOME than my dinky one!
I know what you mean bout not correcting the cute ones. Before we had kids Marshall and I were at a friend’s house and after listening to them mispronounce words that their children were saying we made a vow to NEVER do that. That is until Tyler started to say mo-mo-di-dle (motorcycle). Alas he too finally got
it right but that is a word that I will never forget.
Do you mind if I put a link to your blog on mine?
Hope you are well. L-Sarah
That is adorable. My five year old still says “Mazagine” and I can’t bring myself to correct her. She did used to say “Cowpiller” but she figured out the correct way also.
Awwww, today my daughter said cash regiger instead of register….love it.
my heart skipped a beat when i saw that word!! my son still says it and has no idea…and i will never tell him:) and, he says “mazagine” too! what a great name for a blog
I love the name of your blog!
My 7 year-old son still says Callapitter, and I, like you, refuse to correct him, and will shoot looks at anyone who tries. He’s growing up so fast, too fast, and this is one of those small things I’m trying to hold onto, to preserve his boyhood. I even saved one of his art projects from Kindergarten that had “callapitter” written on it.
I’m new to your blog, and the name is what brought me here — it caught my eye on another site and I had to check it out. You’re stuck with me now!
Wonderful story! It reminds me of my mom. My brother’s twelve, now, and it breaks her heart every day to see us both. My brother sucked on a purple butterfly pacifier for years, and she only took it away once it became ridiculous. She later snipped the gummy end of the binky off and inserted a hook through one of the holes. It’s now a Christmas ornament.
Some things never get old. Unfortunately, the kids do. You poor, poor mothers. ( :
Anyway, thanks for letting us know! I was hoping to participate in your Fall Into Reading Challenge, but I’m not sure if I can. I’ll be checking in on your blog, though!
I think it’s cute! i love it
Awww…love this! My Emily still says “thing-gers” for fingers. Only a couple of years ago when she wanted to go swimming she would wear a “baby soup.” I still wish she did. Not fair she’s going to be six in March! Glad to have another blog to read. You’re welcome to visit mine!