A Desk of My Own

When I was a little girl, I had a wooden roll-top desk. It was child-sized, and I used it extensively. In fact, by the time I was done with it, it had crayon scribbles inside the drawers, scratch-and-sniff stickers on the back that were no longer sniff-worthy, and the roll-top…well, let’s just say it didn’t roll too well anymore.

Both of our kids used this same desk when they were small, and though it barely survived the three of us…we still all enjoyed it.

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Not the greatest view of it, but here's C. at that roll-top desk, Feb. 2005.

There’s just something special about having your own desk. A place to scribble, drawers for storing secrets, a creative island all your own.

High school found me doing most of my homework on my bed or bedroom floor. In college, I shared a desk with roommates. And since Chad and I have been married, my “desk” has been the dining room table or kitchen table, or my own lap while sitting on the couch.

Until now.

On Saturday, a truck pulled up outside our home and some very nice men carried in…my new desk! (I am not a person who says “Squeeee!” but in this particular instance, I was very tempted!)

Our new house just happens to have a den right off the foyer, and I didn’t have to work too hard to persuade Chad that I needed a desk for that room. The den was already home to a filing cabinet, bookshelf (of course), and a few chairs. But what it really needed was a desk.

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Looks a little empty right now, doesn’t it? I still have to fill it up and deck it out. I’m thinking of a nice task lamp, perhaps a small clock, plenty of paper and pens. Pictures or a cork board on the wall above… And if you know me, you can imagine that there will eventually be tons of a few books stacked on the desk.

Just looking at it, though, makes me think I need to grab a notebook right this second and start journaling…or writing a novel…or doing some other very important writing. Like I said, there’s something special about those creative islands all your own.

My kids aren’t too sure about this turn of events. To some extent, they think I’m going to claim this entire room as mine and mine alone, shut the door, and spend all my hours alone at my desk. I’ve assured them I won’t.

Yes, there will be times when I’m paying bills or writing or working on a project, when I’ll request some privacy. But I also envision quiet time together in the room — reading and writing together, homework projects and writing projects being done at the same time, a quiet spot to get away from the everyday craziness.

I think I might have convinced L.(5). Saturday night, he dragged a little blue plastic chair all through the house, finally got it to the den, and set it up nearby, proclaiming, “There! Now I can work with you forever!”

Sounds good to me!

Coming Soon: Spring Reading Thing 2012

It’s hard to believe it’s March 1st already! This has been a very weird (and mild) winter for us, so I keep waiting for that big snowstorm we usually get every year, but it hasn’t yet come. And it’s running out of time, because spring is just a few weeks away. And, as we all know, along with spring comes Spring Reading Thing 2012! I hope that many of you plan to participate this year. I know I’m looking forward to it!

Here are the basics, in case you are new to my reading challenges:

Essentially, Spring Reading Thing 2012 is a fun, low-pressure reading challenge open to anyone and everyone. It will take place March 20th-June 20th (which is, not-so-coincidentally, the spring of 2012).

If you’d like to participate, here’s what you need to do:

  • Create a list of some books you’d like to read or finish this spring.
  • Feel free to set some additional reading goals (such as reading to your kids two hours per week, getting through your pile of magazines, etc.). This is completely optional.
  • Write a blog post including the list of books you want to read and any additional goals you’ve set, and get ready to post it on your blog by March 20th.
  • Visit this blog on Tuesday, March 20th to sign up. I’ll have a Mr. Linky set up that morning, so you can submit a link to your personal Spring Reading Thing post, and it will be added to the master list.
  • Read! Work on your goals throughout Spring 2012.
  • Report your results. Write another blog post in June to let everyone know how you did.
  • Have fun! Visit other participants to see what they’re reading. Write reviews if you’re so inclined. But most of all, enjoy your spring reading.

When I host my biyearly reading challenges, I usually receive several emails from people asking, “Do I really have to make a list of specific books? Can’t I just set some other goals? Or can’t I decide what to read as I go along?” Here’s the answer:

While you are certainly allowed to set other goals, you really must make a list of books in order to participate in Spring Reading Thing 2012.

I began my challenges in 2006, and all along, the most fun part for the participants — the aspect of my challenges that participants get most excited about — is the fact that we can all check out the other participants’ lists. It’s so fun to see what others plan to read, discover new books and authors, and hop over to Amazon or GoodReads or other sites to learn more about the books we see on the Spring Reading Thing participant lists.

Of course, I’m completely open to your list changing as the challenge goes along. That’s not a problem. But you do have to start off with a list of books you plan or hope to read/finish this spring. I know that making lists and engaging in planned reading is not for everyone. I get that. So if the thought of making a list really bugs you, please know that there are lots of blog-based reading challenges out there. Just do a search and you’ll surely find one that fits your reading personality!

A brief Q & A

Q. What is the point of this whole thing?

A. I started these twice-yearly challenges because I thought it would be fun to share my love of reading with other bloggers and to push myself to read some books I might not otherwise read, or to finish some books I had started and then abandoned & stashed under my bed. I thought there were probably others out there who would appreciate the accountability and encouragement that a challenge like this can provide. And along the way, I discovered there were lots of people who — whether they needed the extra push or not — loved to share what they planned or hoped to read during the upcoming months.

So that’s the point: sharing some reading goals with all the other participants and doing it in a way that works for you. If you want to push yourself, go for it! Or if you just want to share what you’re hoping to get around to reading before summer, that works too. The most important thing is to read this spring, to enjoy it, and to share that enjoyment with others.

Q. What if I don’t have much time to read and I only set a goal to read 2 books? Is that lame?

A. No, it’s not lame! Whether your list includes two books or thirty-two books doesn’t matter to me. Make the challenge work for you. Be reasonable. Maybe try to stretch yourself a little. But don’t stress about it. This is supposed to be fun.

Q. What if I get half-way through the challenge, realize it’s not working for me, and I want to change my list/goals? Does that mean I lose?

A. No! I don’t mind one bit if you change your list part-way through the challenge. The point of my challenges is to provide a fun and easy way for you to set some goals, work toward them, and enjoy reading. If your original list isn’t working for you, you’re likely to be miserable, which would completely defeat the point. Rework your list/goals and keep on reading.

Q. Do I have to review the books I read?

A. Nope, no reviews required. To be honest, I usually don’t write reviews of the books I read during these challenges.

Remember: Katrina’s reading challenges are low-to-no-pressure.

Q. What should I write in my post that has my list and goals? Is there any special format?

A. Nope. As long as you include your goal-list of books, it’s entirely up to you. You might want to check out last year’s challenge page and visit some participants to see how they did it, if you’re not sure where to start.

Q. Do you have a graphic we can put in our sidebars?

A. Yes! Check out the bottom of this post for the code.

Q. Where can we get more information?

A. Well, you already have just about all the information you need. Check back here regularly, though — I’ll give you a few posting guidelines next week, just a few to-do’s that I ask you to abide by if you decide to be part of Spring Reading Thing 2012. And feel free to leave a comment here if you have a specific question I haven’t yet addressed.

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Feel free to use the code below to put the Spring Reading Thing 2012 button on your sidebar or in a blog post, or just grab the graphic from my sidebar. Spread the word!

Spring Reading Thing 2012

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Okay, that’s enough babbling from me. It’s time for you to start making your list. Go peruse your bookshelves, visit the library, check behind your nightstand for lost or abandoned books, and decide what you’d like to read this spring. See you soon!

 

Hobby Focus, Revisited

Back near the beginning of this year, I wrote a post about my intentions to be more intentional in the area of hobbies. I talked about how I’m a dabbler, and that while there’s nothing wrong with dabbling, I thought it would be nice to devote some more focused time to a few hobbies, to dive a little deeper, to see if a hobby (or multiple hobbies) would become more of a passion — something in which I could excel.

So. How has it gone?

Very much like you might expect, if you remember that at heart, I am a dabbler.

I did choose a hobby for January and another one for February.

And I did devote more time to those hobbies than I might otherwise have done.

But…I did still feel restless, called to dip my toe into other hobby waters, discontent to stick with just one. I made progress, but not as much as I had hoped, perhaps.

January’s hobby was knitting.

The good news is, my husband got a scarf out of the whole deal, and he seems to like it very much. He wears it regularly and has told me on numerous occasions how glad he is that I made it for him. I know that if I hadn’t been very deliberate about setting aside time to knit, the scarf would never have been finished. It would still be “in progress,” and most likely sitting — in its unfinished state — next to my favorite seat on the couch.

I also made a hat for C.(13). While he thanked me and seemed pleased, I know it’s not a great hat. It was a rather plain hat (since I have rather plain skills when it comes to knitting). And my fitting and finishing abilities are greatly lacking, so it’s a little big and not the most sturdy of items.

Finally, I began a baby hat that promised to teach me a variety of knitting skills since it contains multiple panels, all done in different stitches

Notice I said I “began” a baby hat. It is unfinished. What can I say? January ended and I was on to the next hobby. I do still plan to finish the hat, but I’m not making any promises as to when.

Things I learned during my month of knitting:

  1. Knitting can be a relaxing way to spend an evening. It gets me off my laptop and is a nice way to pass the time if I’m hanging out with someone who is watching TV.
  2. I have no desire to knit large items. Afghans? No thanks. Sweaters? Nope. Any knitting I do will most likely remain small-scale: hats, scarves, etc.
  3. I do not have a deep and abiding desire to master knitting. It’s true. While I enjoyed the process and the results, I didn’t approach my knitting with zeal or excitement. I think it will remain, for me, a nice pastime, something I’m glad to know how to do, but not something I truly love.

On to February…

February’s hobby was bread-baking.

I do not have a bread machine at this time, so I divided the month between using the method from Artisan Bread in Five Minutes a Day, and making sourdough bread from a starter I purchased from King Arthur Flour. The results of both approaches were yummy and satisfying. I’m growing more confident in baking with yeast (something I feared for many years), and my guys were always excited when another freshly-made loaf came out of the oven.

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Unfortunately, I like bread. A lot. And a fresh loaf is practically irresistible to me. I want nothing more than to slice it and slather it with butter. All of it. Which, as you might imagine, would not be the healthiest choice I could make. So admittedly, as the month went on, the frequency of my bread-making lagged a bit. But only because I was trying to make wiser food choices…and sometimes that required me to not make bread.

Things I learned from my month of bread-baking:

  1. I genuinely enjoy baking. I knew this before, but this month of extra baking just reinforced it. I definitely get more fulfillment from a loaf of bread than from a knitted baby hat. Don’t ask me why; I just do.
  2. Baking with yeast isn’t so bad. Yeast doughs can be a bit temperamental, but if I don’t get hung up on precise times and volumes and doubling and so on, and just work with the dough a bit more…I can still get very good results.
  3. I think my guys prefer bread to knitted products as well.

March is just around the corner. So what is next for me?

It’s an aspect of the hobby I kept dabbling in during January and February (while I was supposed to be focused on knitting and baking): Photography. I haven’t been able to put my camera down. One reason is because I’ve committed to doing a “picture a day” scrapbook again this year. But another reason is that I really do want to improve my photography skills. It’s something that interests me, appeals to my detail-oriented nature, and allows me to better capture life with my favorite people.

I’ve already taken an online class in basic photography, so in March, I’m going to explore “post processing” a bit. In other words, I’m going to learn more about how to use Photoshop to enhance the color, white balance, contrast, etc. in the photos I take. I must admit, I’m rather excited.

Maybe this hobby — the one that’s been calling to me so far this year — will be the one I settle in with and stay with for a while. We’ll see.

Casserole Wars

No, I am not using this post’s title to refer to a new show on Food Network.

Instead, I am referring to a quiet little war that brews in our house.

It’s a battle between me and my five-year-old.

Here’s the breakdown:

I like making the occasional casserole. I like casseroles because they typically require few pots, pans, and baking dishes (i.e., less clean-up for the win). I like them because they make it easy to sneak veggies onto my kids’ plates. I like them because, while there is great variety in the world of casseroles, they rarely require fancy cooking techniques, and they fit into busy mom-life pretty nicely. Easy to make ahead, easy to store as leftovers. Basically, the benefit list is long.

L., my five-year-old, adamantly dislikes casseroles. I can’t seem to get a straight answer out of him as to exactly why he doesn’t like casseroles. I know it’s not the veggies — he’ll often happily eat whatever veggies I serve. And I don’t think it’s related to the flavors — I try to keep things tasty without being “too adventurous.”

To be honest, I think it has something to do with the fact that in a casserole, all the food is combined into one dish.

L. prefers to have the different parts of his meal — the meat, the veggies, the additional starch or other items — to be conspiciously separated upon his plate. No touching allowed!

And in a casserole…it’s all touching. It’s all intermingled. Quite simply, it’s impossible to separate.

As a result, L. is not pleased.

We’ve fallen into a routine wherein I make a casserole every couple weeks — after days and days of doing the whole “food conspicously separated upon the plate” type of meals. The thing is, 3/4ths of the people who live here actually like the casseroles I make, so I’m not prepared to just give them up because of a certain kid’s food preferences. And yet, despite the fact that we only put very small amounts of the food/casserole on L.’s plate, and despite the fact that the casseroles are so rare, and despite the fact that I truly try to make the meals kid-friendly…L. is still not pleased.

He knows better than to complain loudly about food Mom prepares. But if you could see the look on his face — the look of sadness and distaste and do-I-really-have-to-eat-this-horribly-combined-food — you would see that my attempts at converting him to a casserole-lover are failing.

L.’s preschool teacher has been wonderful about encouraging the kids to try new foods, or even old foods that they think they don’t like. She tells them that tastes change as kids grow, and even if they don’t like something the first time…or the second…or even the third…well, who knows? Maybe they’ll love it the 15th time they try it!

Now, if we tried to explain this same principle to L., he wouldn’t believe us. But he does seem to believe his teacher.

In fact, just last week, L. gave Tomato Soup another try (soup is another “not-so-great” food in L.’s book). After finishing an entire [tiny] bowl of soup, he admitted that this time was definitely better than the last time he tried tomato soup (“Last time I felt like throwing up after I ate it; this time I didn’t.”) See? Improvement.

So I guess I’ll just keep making the occasional casserole, despite any looks of horror they might inspire, and hope that next time…or the time after that…or maybe in the year 2019, L. will finally look at me and say, “You know what? That casserole wasn’t so bad.”

[Mostly] Wordless Wednesday

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This week, we sold a house. Though we moved to our new house several months ago, we finally closed on the sale of our old one this past Monday. Here is my husband and our boys in front of the old house on Sunday. See my other post for a slightly more emotional exploration of this transition.

And don’t forget to visit 5 Minutes for Mom to see more Wordless Wednesday participants.