WFMW: What to Expect When You Are Remodeling

This year was our Year of Finishing the Basement. We moved into our home a little more than three years ago, and from the beginning, we knew we wanted to turn half of the concrete block “cellar” into a finished “basement.” (Doesn’t “basement” sound so much nicer than “cellar”?)

2008 was the year to do just that. You can check out my boring, but picture-filled, progress updates at my Basement Remodel Blog.

Our basement is now thisclose to being 100% done, and as I look back over the last six months, I see a number of things that I know now that I didn’t know when we started.

Of course, there’s all the usual stuff — research thoroughly before choosing a contractor, make wise financing decisions, have a clear vision for your new space — but the advice I’m offering today consists of a few little practical things that you might not know about when you’re going into a project. If you’re thinking of remodeling, I hope these tips can help you along the way.

What to Expect When You’re Remodeling

1. Assume at the beginning that the project will take quite a bit longer than planned and cost quite a bit more than planned. Originally, we thought our basement would be done in 8 weeks. It’s now been six months and though the vast majority of the work was done in 5 months, there are still little things that aren’t done. As for the budget? We managed to stay within our budget, but only by cutting out some things that were in our original plan.

So keep your expectations reasonable, leave plenty of wiggle room in your budget, and you should be just fine. And if things happen to stay right on track for you, you can be pleasantly surprised!

2. Carry your digital camera with you at all times. My husband and I had a hard time getting out to stores together to look at cabinets, bathroom vanities, countertops, etc. So I started going out during the day, while he was at work, fully equipped with my camera.

I’m sure the people at Home Depot were amused while I walked up and down the Kitchen and Bath Section, snapping pictures of countertops, cabinets, ceramic tiles, and everything else. The pictures came in very handy, though. Chad and I could review the pictures on the computer after the kids went to bed, and narrow down our options. That way, when we did finally have time to get out to the store, we were far more efficient.

You could also use your camera to take pictures at friends’ houses (with their permission, of course) when you see a room, color scheme, or furniture set-up that inspires you as you plan your own project.

3. Find out what you can do to keep costs down if you’re working with a contractor. My husband and I are not handy at all, so we knew up front that we needed professionals to take the lead in this project. But we did talk to our contractor at the beginning of the process to find out what “little things” we could do to reduce our costs.

We ended up doing all the painting and finishing touches, and we also personally bought many of the materials and supplies. The contractor would have been happy to pick these things up, but we would have been charged the cost plus a premium for his time. So whether it was flooring, grout for the bathroom, or any of a number of other things, getting items ourselves saved valuable dollars.

4. Prepare for the noise, the people, and the complete lack of privacy. Logically, I knew remodeling would be loud. And I knew there would be people in my house. But honestly, I wasn’t prepared for how extensive it would be.

Complete strangers heard me discipline my toddler. Strange men showed up at my house every morning at 8:00, even when we were sick. And I can’t tell you how many times I escaped upstairs to use the bathroom, only to hear someone call from downstairs, “Um…ma’am? Could you come down and answer a few questions for us?” Yeah, sure. “Be right there!”

My toddler had some adjusting to do as well. The day the jackhammer ran all morning, preparing space for the new bathroom, was incredibly loud. Not to mention the fact that any toys he got out practically vibrated across the floor. If you have young kids at home, you might want to establish an “alternate location” — somewhere they can stay if there’s a particularly loud or stressful remodeling day. Ask a friend for a little help and then be sure to thank them with a plate of cookies or a gift certificate for a manicure!

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We love our new basement and are so glad we finished it this year. I have to admit, though, it’ll be a while before I’m ready to take on another project. I’m ready to enjoy some quiet, relax in the basement, and use the bathroom without interruption. Well, except for interruptions from my 2-year-old. I guess I can’t escape from that…

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WFMW: 3 Recipes with 5 Ingredients or Less

This week over at Rocks in My Dryer, Shannon is hosting a special Works-for-Me Wednesday: Five Ingredients or Less. Since I’m all about simple meal preparation, I decided to jump in with three recipes that go over well at our house. But be sure to click the graphic at the bottom of this post to visit Shannon’s blog and check out even more recipes.

Parmesan-Dijon Chicken
C. (9) usually complains about all things chicken — except chicken nuggets, and this recipe. The breading keeps the chicken moist and somehow tricks my son into actually liking chicken.

Ingredients:
3/4 cups dry bread crumbs
1/4 – 1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese
1/4 c. butter or margarine, melted
2 Tbsp. Dijon mustard
4-6 boneless, skinless chicken breasts

Directions:
1. Preheat oven to 375.
2. Mix bread crumbs & Parmesan in large Ziploc bag. Combine margarine and mustard in a wide bowl.
3. Dip chicken in margarine mixture; then place chicken in Ziploc bag and shake bag to coat chicken. (Do this a couple pieces at a time.)
4. Place chicken on baking sheet and bake uncovered 20-30 minutes (turning once) or until done.

Sloppy Joe Pasta Skillet
A good way to get zucchini into my kids’ dinner. I’m cheating slightly and not counting the water as an actual ingredient. If you count the water, this dish has 6 ingredients. :)

Ingredients:
2 cups (6 oz.) dry pasta (we like to use Rotini)
1 lb. lean ground beef
2 cups frozen whole kernal corn
1/2 cup water
1 small zucchini
1 can (15.5 oz.) sloppy joe sauce

Directions:
1. Cook & drain pasta.
2. While pasta is cooking, brown beef in large skillet; drain and return to skillet.
3. Cut zucchini in half lengthwise and then cut each half into slices.
4. Combine beef, pasta, and all other ingredients in skillet.
5. Heat to boiling. Reduce heat to medium; cover & simmer about 5 minutes, stirring occasionally, until zucchini is tender.

Pita Pocket Chicken Salad
A friend of mine gave me this recipe several years ago and I immediately loved it. I make a big batch and my husband and I tear through it quite quickly. Again, I’m cheating just a teeny bit and not counting the optional almonds as one of my official ingredients. Sorry!

Ingredients:
2 cups cubed cooked chicken
1 1/2 cups seedless red grapes, halved
1 cup chopped cucumber
3/4 cup sliced almonds (OPTIONAL, but I highly recommend them)
3/4 cup shredded mozzarella cheese
1/2 cup poppy seed salad dressing (fat free works great in this recipe)

Directions:
In a large bowl, combine chicken, grapes, cucumber, almonds (if desired), and mozzarella cheese. Add dressing and toss to coat.

Enjoy any way you please. I like to stuff a pita to overflowing and dig right in.

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WFMW: Recovering lost photos

[Note: Because I am horribly long-winded, this WFMW post is ridiculously long. If you want the short version, here it is: You can recover deleted photos from your camera card with programs like this one. If you want the long version, read on.]

It was a quiet Tuesday evening. My husband was out of town and the boys were in bed. My plan was to check my email one last time and then head upstairs to read and fall asleep early. In my Inbox was a coupon from Snapfish for one of their photo collages. Oh, that looks like a neat idea, I thought. Maybe I should make a Christmas collage of the boys.

I clicked open my Pictures folder to see which photos I’d want to use. And then, my stomach dropped.

I had pictures up through December 15th, 2007. And then I had pictures starting January 19th, 2008. Nothing in between.

Nothing.

I was sick. How could I lose an entire month of pictures? And why, oh why, did it have to be Christmas pictures? I was a horrible mother — how could I do this? The pictures of L. eagerly tearing the paper off gifts: gone. The pictures of C. playing the piano for family: gone. The pictures from Christmas Eve at my in-laws and Christmas Day with my family: gone, gone, gone.

It took about 2.3 seconds to figure out what had happened. My laptop had died right before Christmas, and I got my Mac in mid-January. Naturally, I had continued taking pictures during that time period, and downloaded them to our desktop. But here’s the thing: I had created a new “Katrina profile” on the desktop and loaded them on there. When I got my new Mac, I deleted that profile. I thought I’d transferred everything I needed to the new laptop, but clearly I hadn’t. I hadn’t transferred a single picture from between December 15th and January 19th.

I hopped on the Internet, searching desperately for software that could help me recover something — anything! And I stumbled on Recover My Photos. It looked like a risk-free option: You download a trial version and have it search your memory card/device. If it finds photos to recover, only then do you pay for a license to enable the software to restore those pictures.

I downloaded it. I put my camera’s memory card into a slot on our printer, and I set the program to run a “deep scan.” To be honest, I had very little hope. It had been almost 2 months since Christmas and I’d taken well over 200 photos in that time.

The way these types of programs work is: When you delete photos from your digital camera’s memory card, it doesn’t actually delete the photos themselves, just any references to them. In other words, the data is still there, but your camera or other device doesn’t “see” it. The data is only permanently gone when the camera writes over that same area with new photos. I had taken so many pictures that I was sure the Christmas pictures were gone for good.

The scan took a long time… over an hour (it’s a fairly large memory card). While it scanned, I played around on the computer.

And then — lo and behold — I found the pictures on the desktop. They were buried about five levels down in an obscure folder labeled “Other pics.” Apparently, at some point I had backed up the pictures from my “Katrina profile” into the other, permanent profile on the computer. I have no memory of doing so, but in a fit of responsibility, I must have.

There they were — Christmas memories recorded, smiles, gifts, decorations, family. Ahhh… I could breathe again.

Then I saw that the program’s scan was done. Recover My Photos had found 286 recoverable pictures on my camera card — including a bunch of Christmas pictures. I couldn’t believe it! Thankfully, I didn’t need it now, but I was very happy to see that it was possible to find photos believed to be long gone.

I hope you never need to use Recover My Photos or similar software, but if you ever do anything silly like I thought I had done, it’s nice to know these kinds of programs exist and that they really work.

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Oh, wait — what’s that, Mom? You want to see one of the pictures? Okay, here you go.

WFMW: Online shopping


While I haven’t been a consistent participant in Works-for-Me Wednesday (the well of unique and helpful ideas has run dry, I’m afraid), I couldn’t resist today’s topic.

Online Shopping

Ah…online shopping. One of my favorite necessities hobbies activities. I really and truly do not like “going shopping” — as in, heading to the mall, dealing with crowds, etc. — but sitting in my recliner, clicking mouse buttons, and then having necessities and little luxuries arrive at my front door? That, my friends, is a wonderful thing.

So while I’m sure that most, if not all, of the places I mention below have already been mentioned by other WFMW participants, I’m going to share them with you anyway.

My favorite online shopping sites:

Amazon — Is there anyone who doesn’t shop at Amazon.com? First, there’s the books. Those, and their prices, were enough to make me a fan of Amazon. But I’ve also been known to buy toys, protein bars, my husband’s bicycle-riding recovery complex stuff, and video games from Amazon.

1800diapers
— My sister-in-law clued me in to this website, and I’ve been a fan ever since. Not only do they deliver diapers and wipes to your door, but they also sell formula. It was so nice to never have to “run out for formula” when L. was little. The UPS man dropped off cases of the stuff on a semi-regular basis.

Land’s End — I am a “petite,” and there is little I dread more than going to the mall to try to find pants that actually fit. I get most of my khakis and an occasional pair of jeans from Land’s End. Plus — they often have comfy fleece items and hoodies, the type of items that make up the vast majority of my wardrobe. Also: their overstocks section is great. I’ve gotten many a good deal on clothes for the kids, polo shirts for Chad, and even towels.

Old Navy
— I love Old Navy for kids’ clothes. They have fantastic sales and ship super-quickly.

Sephora — Being a fairly recent convert to Bare Minerals makeup, I’m also a recent convert to Sephora. Sure, I can go to our mall to get makeup, but Sephora’s prices are identical, and they often have shipping deals and sales, so I pick them over the mall almost every time.

Zappos
— Particularly for workout shoes. Fast shipping. FREE shipping. Easy return policy. Huge selection.

Levenger — Oh, I almost forgot Levenger! Not a bargain-basement place by any means, but if you love pens, paper, journals, reading tools, writing tools, etc., Levenger just might appeal to you. I usually only place one or two orders from Levenger/year — a little splurge to feed my reading and writing habits. But seeing that Levenger box arrive is always a highlight.

Ebates — Not an online store, but something that makes online shopping a little sweeter. When you sign up for Ebates, you can get “cash back” when you shop at many online stores. I used to be a regular Ebater, but then forgot about it. My friend Jennifer blogged about Ebates not too long ago and now I’m a faithful participant again. Whether it’s a download from iTunes, a pair of khakis from Land’s End or a photo order from Snapfish, a portion of my total goes into my Ebates account and I get a disbursement every quarter. So I can do more online shopping, of course.

By now, you might have the idea that I shop more online than in brick & mortar stores. You’d be right. :)

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WFMW: A Bale of Hay Keeps the Spiders Away

I really don’t like spiders. And I especially don’t like them in my house. My husband tells me that a spider or two is a good thing, since they eat any other bugs that might try to live with us, but I disagree. No bug in my home can be accurately labeled a “good” thing.

Earlier this fall, I was lamenting to a friend that our basement seems to be a general hang-out for spiders of all kinds. I get out the shop-vac, suck them all into oblivion…or I take the bug-zapping spray and attack them one by one…and a few days later, a new spider family has moved in. It drives me nuts.

This wonderful friend shared with me a little “home remedy” that she had read in the newspaper. It goes something like this:

To keep spiders out of your house, set a bale of hay or straw outside your home, not right next to an entrance, but not too far away either…maybe along the side of your house. Spiders eying up your house will instead gladly view the bale as Spider Condo Extraordinaire, and will over-winter in it, cozy and warm, leaving your house free for, well, humans.

I was a bit skeptical. But willing to give it a try.

I picked up a small bale of straw at the local farm market and set it next to our lamp post, along with a fake scarecrow and few small pumpkins, as fall decoration. I didn’t inspect it or think much at all about it, but I recently realized that in the several weeks since I did that, I hadn’t seen a single spider in our house. Not one. Odd for this time of year, when small animals of all kinds are fleeing from the dropping temperatures.

Coincidence?

Well, yesterday, I was taking down the outdoor fall decorations, before the pumpkins decided to rot and stink up the front yard. I picked up the bale of straw, to move it around to the side of the house, near the garage door. You’ll never guess what fell off the bottom when I picked it up.

Okay, you guessed. Spiders. A whole bunch of them. They quickly scattered, understandably devastated that their apartment building had been lifted right off of them. I tried to explain that it wasn’t really a disaster, just a relocation plan. They weren’t impressed.

But I’m hoping they’ll find their way over to the straw bale once again, and not even think twice about our nice warm cold, hard basement.

In the interest of full disclosure, I have found no scientific evidence to back up this theory. It’s simply a suggestion given to me by a caring friend. But if it continues to work as it has so far, you can be sure that I’ll be investing in a bale of straw (or two…or three) each and every year. Only because I care about the spiders and want them to have a nice place to live. As long as that place isn’t my house.

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