Hobby Focus, Revisited

Back near the beginning of this year, I wrote a post about my intentions to be more intentional in the area of hobbies. I talked about how I’m a dabbler, and that while there’s nothing wrong with dabbling, I thought it would be nice to devote some more focused time to a few hobbies, to dive a little deeper, to see if a hobby (or multiple hobbies) would become more of a passion — something in which I could excel.

So. How has it gone?

Very much like you might expect, if you remember that at heart, I am a dabbler.

I did choose a hobby for January and another one for February.

And I did devote more time to those hobbies than I might otherwise have done.

But…I did still feel restless, called to dip my toe into other hobby waters, discontent to stick with just one. I made progress, but not as much as I had hoped, perhaps.

January’s hobby was knitting.

The good news is, my husband got a scarf out of the whole deal, and he seems to like it very much. He wears it regularly and has told me on numerous occasions how glad he is that I made it for him. I know that if I hadn’t been very deliberate about setting aside time to knit, the scarf would never have been finished. It would still be “in progress,” and most likely sitting — in its unfinished state — next to my favorite seat on the couch.

I also made a hat for C.(13). While he thanked me and seemed pleased, I know it’s not a great hat. It was a rather plain hat (since I have rather plain skills when it comes to knitting). And my fitting and finishing abilities are greatly lacking, so it’s a little big and not the most sturdy of items.

Finally, I began a baby hat that promised to teach me a variety of knitting skills since it contains multiple panels, all done in different stitches

Notice I said I “began” a baby hat. It is unfinished. What can I say? January ended and I was on to the next hobby. I do still plan to finish the hat, but I’m not making any promises as to when.

Things I learned during my month of knitting:

  1. Knitting can be a relaxing way to spend an evening. It gets me off my laptop and is a nice way to pass the time if I’m hanging out with someone who is watching TV.
  2. I have no desire to knit large items. Afghans? No thanks. Sweaters? Nope. Any knitting I do will most likely remain small-scale: hats, scarves, etc.
  3. I do not have a deep and abiding desire to master knitting. It’s true. While I enjoyed the process and the results, I didn’t approach my knitting with zeal or excitement. I think it will remain, for me, a nice pastime, something I’m glad to know how to do, but not something I truly love.

On to February…

February’s hobby was bread-baking.

I do not have a bread machine at this time, so I divided the month between using the method from Artisan Bread in Five Minutes a Day, and making sourdough bread from a starter I purchased from King Arthur Flour. The results of both approaches were yummy and satisfying. I’m growing more confident in baking with yeast (something I feared for many years), and my guys were always excited when another freshly-made loaf came out of the oven.

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Unfortunately, I like bread. A lot. And a fresh loaf is practically irresistible to me. I want nothing more than to slice it and slather it with butter. All of it. Which, as you might imagine, would not be the healthiest choice I could make. So admittedly, as the month went on, the frequency of my bread-making lagged a bit. But only because I was trying to make wiser food choices…and sometimes that required me to not make bread.

Things I learned from my month of bread-baking:

  1. I genuinely enjoy baking. I knew this before, but this month of extra baking just reinforced it. I definitely get more fulfillment from a loaf of bread than from a knitted baby hat. Don’t ask me why; I just do.
  2. Baking with yeast isn’t so bad. Yeast doughs can be a bit temperamental, but if I don’t get hung up on precise times and volumes and doubling and so on, and just work with the dough a bit more…I can still get very good results.
  3. I think my guys prefer bread to knitted products as well.

March is just around the corner. So what is next for me?

It’s an aspect of the hobby I kept dabbling in during January and February (while I was supposed to be focused on knitting and baking): Photography. I haven’t been able to put my camera down. One reason is because I’ve committed to doing a “picture a day” scrapbook again this year. But another reason is that I really do want to improve my photography skills. It’s something that interests me, appeals to my detail-oriented nature, and allows me to better capture life with my favorite people.

I’ve already taken an online class in basic photography, so in March, I’m going to explore “post processing” a bit. In other words, I’m going to learn more about how to use Photoshop to enhance the color, white balance, contrast, etc. in the photos I take. I must admit, I’m rather excited.

Maybe this hobby — the one that’s been calling to me so far this year — will be the one I settle in with and stay with for a while. We’ll see.

Casserole Wars

No, I am not using this post’s title to refer to a new show on Food Network.

Instead, I am referring to a quiet little war that brews in our house.

It’s a battle between me and my five-year-old.

Here’s the breakdown:

I like making the occasional casserole. I like casseroles because they typically require few pots, pans, and baking dishes (i.e., less clean-up for the win). I like them because they make it easy to sneak veggies onto my kids’ plates. I like them because, while there is great variety in the world of casseroles, they rarely require fancy cooking techniques, and they fit into busy mom-life pretty nicely. Easy to make ahead, easy to store as leftovers. Basically, the benefit list is long.

L., my five-year-old, adamantly dislikes casseroles. I can’t seem to get a straight answer out of him as to exactly why he doesn’t like casseroles. I know it’s not the veggies — he’ll often happily eat whatever veggies I serve. And I don’t think it’s related to the flavors — I try to keep things tasty without being “too adventurous.”

To be honest, I think it has something to do with the fact that in a casserole, all the food is combined into one dish.

L. prefers to have the different parts of his meal — the meat, the veggies, the additional starch or other items — to be conspiciously separated upon his plate. No touching allowed!

And in a casserole…it’s all touching. It’s all intermingled. Quite simply, it’s impossible to separate.

As a result, L. is not pleased.

We’ve fallen into a routine wherein I make a casserole every couple weeks — after days and days of doing the whole “food conspicously separated upon the plate” type of meals. The thing is, 3/4ths of the people who live here actually like the casseroles I make, so I’m not prepared to just give them up because of a certain kid’s food preferences. And yet, despite the fact that we only put very small amounts of the food/casserole on L.’s plate, and despite the fact that the casseroles are so rare, and despite the fact that I truly try to make the meals kid-friendly…L. is still not pleased.

He knows better than to complain loudly about food Mom prepares. But if you could see the look on his face — the look of sadness and distaste and do-I-really-have-to-eat-this-horribly-combined-food — you would see that my attempts at converting him to a casserole-lover are failing.

L.’s preschool teacher has been wonderful about encouraging the kids to try new foods, or even old foods that they think they don’t like. She tells them that tastes change as kids grow, and even if they don’t like something the first time…or the second…or even the third…well, who knows? Maybe they’ll love it the 15th time they try it!

Now, if we tried to explain this same principle to L., he wouldn’t believe us. But he does seem to believe his teacher.

In fact, just last week, L. gave Tomato Soup another try (soup is another “not-so-great” food in L.’s book). After finishing an entire [tiny] bowl of soup, he admitted that this time was definitely better than the last time he tried tomato soup (“Last time I felt like throwing up after I ate it; this time I didn’t.”) See? Improvement.

So I guess I’ll just keep making the occasional casserole, despite any looks of horror they might inspire, and hope that next time…or the time after that…or maybe in the year 2019, L. will finally look at me and say, “You know what? That casserole wasn’t so bad.”

Turkey Trepidation

So.

I have not made many turkeys in my life.

I think the grand total is 2.

For the vast majority of my 30-some years, we had Thanksgiving dinner at either my mom’s or my in-laws’. Both my mother and mother-in-law are very good cooks, and I usually showed up with some kind of side dish or dessert, feasted on all the delicious preparations, and didn’t think beyond that happy little routine.

Those two turkeys I mentioned above? One year we found ourselves having a quiet Thanksgiving, just the three of us (this was before L.(5) was born, obviously). I bought one of those turkey oven bags and just followed the directions. The turkey was “fine,” but nothing special. Another year, we ended up just having my mom over. Chad and I attempted the famous Alton Brown turkey. While it was good, it seemed that the stoneware pan we used (as opposed to the metal sheet pan called for) didn’t cook the underside of the turkey enough (a fact we didn’t discover until the carving process was just about done). No one got food poisoning, but I was more than a little nervous.

In recent years, my in-laws have taken to spending the cold months in a warmer climate, and we often don’t see them until Christmas draws them back home. And with my extended family growing, if we’re spending Thanksgiving with my side of the family, it makes sense for us to host the gathering. Which is no problem at all…except that the turkey-prep usually falls to the hostess.

Let me interject that I know my mom would be more than happy to come to our house early on Thanksgiving to prepare the bird and start the roasting process. But I want her to be able to enjoy a leisurely day.

And besides. It’s about time I learned to cook a yummy turkey, don’t you think?

So a couple weeks ago, I began my search for The Perfect — And Also Foolproof — Roasted Turkey Recipe.

I wanted one that was, naturally, delicious. A little different. Easy. And did I mention foolproof? I’m not bad when it comes to baking, but my cooking skills are just mediocre.

Finally, I settled on this one: Maple-Roasted Turkey with Sage, Smoked Bacon, and Cornbread Stuffing.

Here’s why:

A) It got a lot — a whole lot — of five-star reviews, many of which mention easiness, differentness, and yumminess (see above).

B) It involves bacon. And let’s face it: Even if everything else goes completely wrong, bacon can make things better. Right? That’s what I’m counting on.

So as I type this post, there is a turkey thawing in my refrigerator, sage growing on my windowsill, bacon chilling in the fridge, and more fixin’s for a Thanksgiving dinner stashed in random places throughout my kitchen.

Here’s hoping everything goes well!

Do you have a foolproof turkey recipe? Are you chief turkey-maker in your family or does that job fall to someone else?

It must be fall

pumpkinsI’ve purchased many pumpkins in my life, but they’ve always been for carving or other decoration purposes. And when I want pumpkin for baking purposes, I’ve always relied on good old canned pumpkin.

But since our CSA gave us several small sugar pumpkins last week, I decided that it was finally time for me to make my own pumpkin puree. It’s not really that hard. Time-consuming, yes, but easy. Here’s the process I followed:

1. Thoroughly rinse outside of pumpin to get rid of dirt and other gunky stuff.

2. Cut pumpkin in half vertically. Scoop out seeds and stringy stuff. (Save seeds and roast them later w/ butter & kosher salt!)

3. Place pumpkin halves flesh-side-down in a 9×13 baking pan. Add water to come 1/4-inch up sides of pan.

4. Bake at 350 degrees for 45-60 minutes, until pumpkin flesh is soft and scrapes easily away from skin.

5. Scoop out flesh into large bowl. (I used a cookie dough scoop.) Puree the pumpkin until smooth. (I used a stick blender, but you could also use a food processor, hand mixer, etc.)

From what I’ve read, you can refrigerate this puree if you intend to use it within 3-5 days, or put in freezer bags, squeeze out excess air, and freeze for months.

It looked like good pumpkin puree, but the real question is — does it produce yummy baked goods? I put it to the test this morning with pumpkin muffins:

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The verdict in our house? YUM. I’m pretty sure these muffins will be gone by the end of the day.

Just one reason I love fall.

Feelings about fries

French Fries --- Image by © Royalty-Free/CorbisI don’t eat french fries very often. But when I do, I must admit that I have rather strong feelings about them.

The truth is, some french fries are just more enjoyable than others. My husband, on the other hand, is much more easy-going when it comes to fry preferences.

Allow me to visually demonstrate my personal feelings on fries:

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Bottom line: I like them skinny and crunchy. Salty is good too, but as long as there is not too much “mushiness” to them, I can be flexible. My husband, however, is open to a wide variety of fry types. Wimpy ones, hearty ones, crunchy ones, mushy ones — he accepts them all.

I took my kids to TGIFriday’s a few weeks ago, on a night when my husband was out of town. I asked for fries as one of my sides, but what came out of the kitchen was something new, a kind of fry I hadn’t seen before. And to be honest, they were ridiculous.

It was as if someone had taken the most gigantic potatoes they could find, cut them in quarters and fried them up.

I am not joking or exaggerating when I say that one of them was the size of your standard banana.

Look: If I wanted a baked potato, I would have ordered a baked potato. But I did not. I ordered fries. And in my opinion, fries should have significantly less mushy potato in them than baked potatoes.

Fortunately, my kids held no such prejudice against these “hunk o’ potato” fries, so I split the so-called fries between them and stuck to my side salad.

But that got me thinking: apparently, my kids don’t have strong feelings about the size of french fries either. Am I the only one that has a strong preference for a particular type of fry? Is this one more sign that I’m more quirky than I like to admit?

I don’t really have a point to this post, except to share with you that in my world, the size of french fries is inversely proportional to my enjoyment of those fries.

And yes, I know that those skinny, crunchy ones are generally not as healthful as the more potato-y ones. Which brings me back to my first sentence. Given my enjoyment of the crunch, it’s probably best that I don’t eat fries very often.

So I’m curious: what about you? Do you like the skinny fries or the thick ones? Or do you think it’s insane that I even have an opinion about french fries? (It’s okay if you think I’m crazy; I can take it!)