Lunchtime Read-Aloud and a Classic I’ve Never Read

In case you hadn’t gathered, reading is somewhat of a passion — and pretty much, a requirement — in this house. We all love books, and we all spend a fair amount of time reading each day.

But one area where I always want to do better is in reading aloud to the kids. Oh, I read to L.(5) at bedtime. But by then, he has usually stalled and dawdled or needed one last sip of water and we end up rushing through a quick book or two because it is time for bed. We try to squeeze in reading other times too, but I admit I’m not very good at making it a priority.

C.(12) and I are sporadic when it comes to reading aloud together. Over the course of the past year, we read a couple books (The Book of Three and The Black Cauldron by Lloyd Alexander), but during the school year it seems that homework and piano lessons and Wednesday night church and general family busyness all conspire against us. We struggle to consistently set aside time to read in the evenings and it often falls by the wayside.

But now…it’s summer. Or close enough. And I decided that one of my personal goals for this summer was to spend more time reading aloud to the boys.

Here’s the thing: I want to read to them at the same time. But I’ll tell you, it can be very hard to find material that appeals to both a 5-year-old and a 12-year-old.

So instead, I thought I’d pick something that appealed to me!

Believe it or not, I’ve never read The Wind in the Willows. It’s possible that I had to read portions of it in elementary school, as part of our reading curriculum. But if I did, I certainly don’t remember it. I know I’ve heard about The Wind in the Willows — Mole and Badger and Toad. But still, it remains a classic that I’ve never read. Perfect for our read-aloud.

Next I had to choose a time. While our evenings are more free in the summer, the kids tend to stay outside, playing and swinging, well into the evening and I’m hesitant to interfere with that hallmark of childhood. Instead, I decided to borrow an idea from my friend Jennifer: a lunchtime read-aloud. It’s perfect, really. While the kids are eating strawberries and sandwiches, they are my captive audience. I have at least 15-20 minutes every afternoon — perfect for reading!

We began today. During a trip to the library, I picked up a copy of The Wind in the Willows and as soon as lunch was on the table, I was diving into Chapter 1.

So far, so good. Actually, it was pretty great. I thought that the story might be a bit “young” for C. And I thought the language and length of chapters might be a bit “old” for L. But both of them thoroughly enjoyed the story so far.

I’m sure part of their enjoyment was related to the closeness and camaraderie that come from exploring a story together. Together-time is always a plus. But C. mentioned something about an excerpt from the book being in his reading book this past year, and L. was able to give me a pretty good recap of what we had read, so I know they were both engaged in the book as well.

I can’t guarantee I’ll be faithful to read at every single lunch-time this summer. I’m sure there will be days when we’re not here, days when I’m exhausted, days when distractions keep us from our book. But I hope to read a minimum of 3-4 days per week. I’m already trying to figure out what we’ll read next.

[C. and I are planning another reading adventure this summer -- I'll share more about that later!]

In the meantime, I’d love to hear about your read-aloud experiences, or your memories of Wind in the Willows, OR any suggestions for books that will appeal to a 5-year-old and a 12-year-old!

Friday’s Fave Five

Another Friday, another chance to share five of of our favorite things from the past week along with Susanne, the gracious hostess of Friday’s Fave Five.

Here are five of my favorite things from this past week:

1. C. finishing strong in 6th grade. C.(12) had his last day of sixth grade yesterday. (And for the record, yes, the fact that I have a son who will soon be in 7th grade makes me feel a little bit old…and a whole lot like, “Wow. Where did the time go?”) If you’ll permit me to brag for just a second, I’ll tell you that he finished up with straight A’s for the year and on the High Honor Roll. He worked hard and we’re proud of him. I’m not sure if he’s glad school is over or…not so much. For weeks, he’s been telling us how he’s so ready for summer break, but I know it’ll be a transition to go from seeing friends every day to being stuck with his chore-delegating mom and highly talkative little brother for three months or so.

2. Celebrating L.’s 5th birthday with family and friends. In a recent post about our small group, I mentioned that Chad and I are both introverts, and it’s true. But we happen to be introverts with many, many family members. I have to admit, packing this house last weekend with people we love, people who love our kids, was a treat and a blessing. Read more about our celebration (including L.’s Angry Birds birthday cake) in this post.

3. The Berry Almond Chicken Salad at Wendy’s. Yes, a salad is making my list this week. It’s packed with strawberries, blueberries, almonds, and Asiago cheese — four things that I could eat in large quantities if given the chance. And it comes in at a reasonable calorie count (especially the half-size) — low enough that I treated myself to a small bowl of ice cream afterward. Win-win!

4. Give Them Grace by Elyse Fitzpatrick. One of my favorite books ever is Comforts from the Cross by Elyse Fitzpatrick. It seems I’m always reading and re-reading it. So needless to say, when I saw she had a book on raising our kids with grace and the gospel coming out, I immediately pre-ordered it. It is now on my bookshelf and I’m trying to resist it until I finish my Spring Reading Thing books. I’m not sure if I’ll be able to hold out, though. I admit, I’ve already read snippets and I think it’s going to be really, really good.

5. Friends who spontaneously and graciously offer to watch my kids. I had a friend do exactly that yesterday — she offered, on the spur of the moment, to watch L. while I attended my nephew’s middle school graduation. I didn’t even ask this friend — she just offered. It was such a blessing. Naturally, L. enjoyed playing with my friend’s son far more than he would have enjoyed the graduation ceremony, and I was able to enjoy a peaceful hour or so, just being there and taking pictures. Thank you, friend! I want to be that kind of friend, too, the gracious and giving kind…

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Celebrating 5

I know I haven’t blogged in a week, but I have a good reason. L.’s 5th birthday took up a significant amount of the past week.

Well, technically his actual birthday just took up last Wednesday…

But throwing him a party took up several more days. Because I had to clean the house (and it takes me multiple days to clean our house, because I am not a gifted housekeeper, to put it mildly), and buy large amounts of food and beverages.

It was all worth it, of course. Forty-one people — lots of family and several close friends — gathered here to celebrate L. turning five.

Everyone liked the cake, but L. especially loved it.

When we showed it to him, he burst out in spontaneous giggle and said, “Thank you, Mom!”

(If the creatures on the cake look unfamiliar to you, don’t worry. It just means that you have not yet been sucked into the addictive app known as Angry Birds. That’s probably a good thing. But in our house, the majority of people are hopeless Angry Birds fans.)

When the time came, he blew out the candles like a pro.

L. loved his party, and everyone who came seemed to enjoy it as well.

Naturally, I had to spend Monday recovering, and then Tuesday attacking the laundry that I’d been ignoring for the past week.

(Then I turned around and noticed that today is June 1st. How did that happen? How can it possibly be June already?)

So far, being five seems to agree with L. I’m having a slightly harder time with it, though. Five just seems so…old. My little guy is growing up so fast. Every year brings new delights, though, so I’ll just look forward to the ones waiting for us this year. Five will be fantastic!

 

Five (Wordless Wednesday)

Guess who turns five today?

Happy Birthday to my sweet L.!

“Four” has been a wonderful year, full of milestones and learning and laughter and fun.

I can’t wait to see what “Five” brings us.

I love you, L.!

 

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Losing gracefully…mostly

It’s been a long time since I did a game review on this blog, but that doesn’t mean I no longer enjoy games. I’ll admit that I don’t play them as often as I used to, but I still love to pull out a board game with family or friends when the opportunity presents itself. And I’ll tell anyone who asks that I don’t care if I win or if I lose; I just genuinely enjoy playing games.

And that’s true…mostly.

L.(4) has been asking me to play games with him lately, and I’m happy to oblige. We play a handful of somewhat obscure games (like Orchard, Froggy Boogie, and Snail’s Pace Race), but he recently got a couple old familiar games out of the cupboard and asked me to teach him how to play — specifically, Connect Four and Trouble. While he’s still a bit young and inexperienced to comprehend blocking someone on a diagonal or deciding which piece to move in order to best position oneself for the next turn, he likes the pieces and the excitement…and, of course, the chance to win.

L. loves winning.

And that’s one reason I want to play games with him. L. doesn’t take it very well when he loses…or when someone (such as…well…me) does something “mean,” like blocking him or sending his piece back to the beginning. I know this is completely normal for a four-year-old (and apparently, for a handful of adults that I’ve known), and I know he’ll learn to handle it better as he matures, but it’s still something we can begin to gently work on.

The other day, we did just that. As we played a rather heated game of Trouble, I purposely sent him back to Start, and showed him several opportunities he had to send me back to Start, too (which he gleefully took advantage of). We talked about how that’s “just part of the game,” and that it can be fun to have a little back-and-forth as we both try to win. We talked about how if I sent him back to start, then I shouldn’t complain when he does the same to me…and vice versa.

Though he agreed in theory, it was still a little rough in practice. At one point, when I only had one piece left that had to reach the finish line, he told me that if I won, he was never EVER going to play Trouble again. EVER. For real.

I kept offering calm guidance on how to be a good sport and encouraged him to hang in there.

Happily, he won in the end. Fair and square. He was thrilled, of course. But he told me “Good game, Mom,” in a very good-sportsmanlike way. And I graciously accepted defeat.

Because I always graciously accept defeat…

Or do I?

Have you heard of Words with Friends? It’s a Scrabble-like game that you can download for your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch.

I discovered it a while ago and have enjoyed playing it with a handful of family members. Perhaps it’s been so much fun because I’ve won every single game. Playing against my tween, my teenage nephew, even my very smart husband…I’ve been the Words with Friends champion.

But then my friend, Debbie, got an iPhone. And Debbie…well, let’s just say she’s competitive AND she’s a word game master. Silly me — I recommended that she get Words with Friends and play with me.

What was I thinking??

In our very first game, she beat me 361-315. (My first Words with Friends loss. It was rough.)

And just now — as I was typing this post — I received a notification that she played a 32-point word to pull into the lead in our current game.

I will stand by my claim that I enjoy playing games whether I win or lose. But I’ll also admit to feeling just a tinge of something inside.

Part of me is thinking, “We are just going to have to play game after game after game until I crush beat her.”

But another part of me is thinking, “How many games can I lose before I have to tactfully suggest that we take a break from playing?”

I suppose that’s just the grown-up version of a 4-year-old who prefers winning over losing.

Looks like L. isn’t the only one who needs a little practice with losing…

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Played any good games lately? Are you a 100% gracious loser or do you sometimes feel a twinge of “something,” too?