Agreeable

written by Katrina on June 22, 2008 · 6 comments

and filed under Family

L. rarely says “No.”

I am almost always guaranteed to get a very loud and emphatic “NO” whenever I suggest that it might be time for bed or a nap. That “No” is often accompanied by tears and a toddler running in the opposite direction. Suggesting that it’s time to come in from the great outdoors also results in a “no.”

But other than that, he’s usually very agreeable. I suppose I should be thankful for that. After all, the “terrible twos” are frequently dominated by the word “No.”

However, constant “Yes”es can cause problems, too. For example, here’s the conversation L. and I had after church today.

“Did you have a good time in the nursery?”
“Yeah!”
“Did you play with all the toys?”
“Yeah.”
“Did you play nicely with the other kids?”
“Yeah.”
“Did you steal toys from them?”
“Yeah.”
“Did you have some Cheerios?”
“Yeah!”
“Or did you dump them all out on the floor?” [His usual MO.]
“Yeah!”
“Did you do any puzzles?”
“No…yeah!”
“Did you get in trouble?”
“Yeah!”
“Were you a good boy?”
“Yeah.”
“Did Ryan bite you?” [Note: Ryan* is a known former biter, and the nursery staff would have informed me if there had been an incident.]
“Um…yeah!”
“Are you ready to go home?”
“Yeah. Um…no?” This “no” was followed by a dash for the elevator. His morning at church is not complete without a ride on the elevator.

Those little 2-year-old “yeah”s are very adorable, and I love hearing them. But I’m also looking forward to the day when I get a straight story out of this kid.

*Names have been changed to protect the sometimes-innocent.

{ 6 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Beck June 22, 2008 at 9:45 pm

I think he might be teh Baby’s total opposite. She’s a negative gal.

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2 TAMI June 23, 2008 at 12:30 am

“Straight Story” and “Kid” might be mutual exclusives …. not that I want to shatter your hopes or anything!!

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3 Jennifer, Snapshot June 23, 2008 at 12:57 am

I used to have to verify Kyle’s answers as well. I think that I always followed up with a “Yes you did?” or a “No, you didn’t?” Asking in other words sometimes got a straight story.

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4 Susanne June 23, 2008 at 3:11 am

LOL. Story of my life with a dayhome and all.

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5 Garr June 23, 2008 at 4:35 am

Great story. Sounds much like conversations that I have with Grace. She will be 3 in September. I will lean on the “Mutual Exclusives” comment as I think of my princess’ & my own inability to spit out a straight story at such an age.

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6 Beth June 23, 2008 at 6:34 pm

Sounds vaguely familiar over here, too. I have 2 boys, one barely still in this stage and one just beginning! But I do LOVE Toddler speak!

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