A Week Late and a Game Review Short

Last week, we were still knee-deep in stomach bug trauma, so I didn’t get up any kind of game-themed post. Sorry about that! And here I am again today – with no game review! So what’s the deal?

The deal is, game reviews will be slowing down a bit. I still plan on doing them, but just not every week, at least for the time being. For one, I’m running out of games that I’ve played often enough to review. For another, I thought I’d incorporate some other game-related posts. I plan to post in the near future on “Why playing games is great for kids” or “How to host a game night.” And as I continue to play and get familiar with more games, I’ll be reviewing them periodically as well.

In the meantime, I’d love to hear from you. What kinds of games would you like to see reviewed? More kids’ games? More card games? More couples’ games? Party games? Let me know what you’re interested in and I’ll do my best to accommodate!

And don’t forget – holiday season is prime game-playing season. Get your family together, get the munchies out of the pantry, and have fun playing games!

Dianne’s Book Poll

My good friend, Dianne, started this nifty little poll about our book and reading habits. Since I am a book fanatic, I couldn’t pass it up. So without further ado…

  1. Where do you most often buy your books? Online? Secondhand stores? Big name bookstores? I get most of them online, but anytime I’m in any other bookstore (Borders or B&N, usually), I find myself tempted and often pick up “a little something.”
  2. If you buy online, which do you prefer – B&N or Amazon.com? Ebay? Christianbook.com? or elsewhere? Usually Amazon.com. But I use Christianbook.com fairly regularly too. I’ve also gotten books from Half.com at a great price, but I’ve only done that a few times.
  3. Do you put your name in your books? If so, are you a bookplate or stamp person? I’m pretty sporadic about this. Sometimes I write my name in them, sometimes not. I’d love to find a really nice book stamp, but I just haven’t come across one that fits what I want yet.
  4. How do you feel about loaning books to others? I’m pretty good about this, although it’s hard sometimes — with books that I really love or consult regularly. There are a few people that I know I can trust to return them and I have no problem lending them books. As for other people – those who haven’t proven themselves as trustworthy book-returners – I tend to be a little hesitant. But I’ll be the first person to admit that I’ve had Dianne‘s copy of Songbird way too long (and if I have others, Dianne, let me know!).
  5. Do you highlight or mark your books as you read? Yes, although it took me a while to be able to do this. I used to want to keep them perfect and pristine, but I so often found myself leafing through books looking for that one phrase that I was trying to remember… it’s so much better to retain and later find information when you have it marked!
  6. How often do you visit your local library? I cannot answer this question. Because then I’d have to admit that it’s been over a year since I went to the library. I really need to get on the ball about that.
  7. Do you collect any certain kind of book? No, but I have a sizable “collection” of parenting books. We also have my mom’s hardcovers of Zane Grey westerns and her collection of classics… so I guess she did the collecting for us!
  8. What do you do when you’re done with a book and no longer want it? I just sold a whole bunch of stuff on Amazon.com. It’s kind of a pain to have to get a book to the post office within 48 hours of getting the notice that it sold (I mean, I know that’s reasonable, but it’s not always easy with a baby around), but I made quite a bit of money – over $40 – on books that I knew I’d never touch again. I also sometimes take things to the half-price bookstore, but I never seem to get much there. Mostly, I pass books along — to friends, to my mom, etc.
  9. Do you keep a list of or catalog the books you own? I have tried cataloguing our books — many times! But I never get very far. I still hold out hope that I’ll do it someday, though…
  10. Any other weird book habits you’d like to share? Besides the fact that I’m always reading 3-10 books at the same time? Or that any purse I use must be large enough to accommodate at least a paperback? Or that there are books-in-progress near any spot in our house where I regularly sit? Or that I’d rather have books than jewelry or shoes? No, I don’t think I have anything else to share. :)

I had fun answering these questions and would love to see others answer them too! If you do, let me know in the comments, so I can come check it out!

Happy Thanksgiving!

It’s been a quiet morning around the Callpidder House. We’re just hanging out and relaxing before we head over to my mom’s this afternoon for dinner. I’ve made the pumpkin cheesecake, so I don’t have any other dinner responsibilities to take care of. Chad’s out enjoying a bike ride, C.’s watching Flintstones cartoons, and L. is banging rattles on the tray of his high chair after a yummy lunch of “Bananas with Apples and Pears” and a little “Vanilla Custard Pudding.”

As I sit here on my comfy chair with my laptop on my lap and my cat staring at me from the other chair, I don’t want to miss being thankful for this peace. I know there are so many families who spend this day in pain or confusion. Some are pacing hospital floors, some are hoping their teenager will pick today to come back home, and still others are grieving a loss too recent to even process yet. I truly am thankful that this morning has passed pretty much uneventfully for us. There’s definitely something to be said for “uneventful.”

And before we get caught up in the busyness and noise of the rest of the day, I just want to take a minute to list some of the blessings that I am most thankful for this year. The list is by no means exhaustive — I could work for days and never come to the end of the blessings, big and small, that God gives us. But these are just a few of the things on my heart this Thanksgiving 2006:

  • My husband, a man of character and commitment. I love that he is my best friend and that we work better together every year.
  • C., who has turned out to be a terrific big brother. He delights me with his deep thoughts, and touches my heart with his desire to learn more about God.
  • L., the second baby that for many years I never even considered. He is a joy and a piece of sunshine, sharing his smile and giggles with the world.
  • Our extended family on both sides. We’re so blessed to have brothers and sisters and parents who love the Lord and who love each other.
  • My dear friends. I went through a time a few years back where I felt that I had no true, deep friendships outside of Chad. But in recent years, God has blessed me with several close friends who are so much more than I could have asked for. Some live nearby, some live hundreds of miles away, but each one is a blessing and encouragement to me.
  • This wonderful little blogging community. Back when I started this blog in March, I never planned to share it with anyone except a friend or two, I never expected anyone to read it, and I certainly never expected to find and get to know all of you amazing blogging women. I have learned much, laughed much, and have been inspired to grow — all because of you.
  • And finally, but really deserving first place, I’m thankful for Jesus and for his love for me. Without him I am nothing.

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!

So there’s this great guy I know…

It all started last year when he signed up to be a “bouncer” (aka “helper”) for our church’s Pioneer Clubs program. If you’ve ever attempted to teach a room full of 20 or 30 1st-graders, you know that you could use a bouncer, someone to keep the boys in line, answer the girls’ endless questions, and just generally help keep the peace in what could potentially be a very, very loud room. Much to the delight of the other teachers, Chad was a terrific bouncer. He even took a turn at the teaching part. And C. just loved having his dad there every Wednesday night.

Unfortunately, Chad’s work travel schedule was interfering, so Pioneer Clubs was out of the question for this year. But our Children’s Ministry Director, never one to lose a good volunteer, called him this past summer and convinced him to help out with the 1st and 2nd grade Sunday School class. Chad graciously agreed.

A little aside: Note how wonderful my husband is. He readily accepts a request to help out in the children’s program. I, on the other hand, am trying to get out of serving in the nursery this time around. The man puts me to shame.

Well, about…oh…2 weeks into the year, they (you know, the “they” who seem to make all the decisions) decided to split the 1st- and 2nd-graders into two separate classes. There were just too many kids – about 80 every week, and the primary teacher was feeling just a wee bit stressed out. And so, Chad received a phone call, this time asking him to take on being the teacher for 2nd grade this year. Once again, he said yes.

So he went from agreeing to be a bouncer for a room full of kids to being the primary teacher for 40 rambunctious 2nd-graders every week. He went from “just show up” to several hours of prep time every week. What a man. And yes, he has some help – but his helpers are almost all teenagers. And teaching teenagers how to be effective group leaders for these kids is another challenge altogether. But he’s up to it. He’s doing a great job.

Aside from the fact that he’s so willing to serve, there’s another neat aspect to this whole thing. I don’t know how it is at your church, but at all the ones I’ve ever attended, the vast majority of Sunday School teachers for little kids are women. Which is fine and cool and I have no problem with it. But I think it’s great for these little boys to have a guy-teacher here and there, a role model to look up to.

Although our church tends to be a solid “middle class suburban” kind of place, that doesn’t mean that there aren’t hurting kids. In a room of 40 children, I know there are boys from broken homes, boys who don’t know their dads, boys who have no male examples to speak of. And I believe that Chad will touch their lives in ways that he’ll probably never even know about, this side of Heaven. Many of us can look back to an influential teacher from our childhood, one who – just by being themselves – encouraged us or inspired us or pointed us toward God. I truly think Chad will be that teacher for some of these 2nd-grade boys.

So today, a little tribute to my husband. I’m so proud of him. And so grateful for his example to me of a willing servant. I respect him more than I can say.

Oh…and today’s his birthday. So…

Happy Birthday, Sweetheart! I love you!

I just can’t do it

I’ve been known to be a tiny bit obsessive. And on top of that, once I challenge myself to something, I pride myself on doing all I can to meet that challenge. So it is with great pain and reluctance that I admit that… there’s a book I just can’t finish. Or perhaps I should say, there’s a book that I just can’t read in its entirety. It’s a book that’s on my Fall into Reading Challenge List. It’s a book I had looked forward too. But it’s time to face it: it’s just not going to happen.

Here’s the book:

Nancy Drew was a key part of my formative years. In fact, at one point, I was determined to be Nancy Drew when I grew up. She had it all: the independent spirit, a quick mind, and countless mysteries that plunged her into adventure and carefully planted clues. My parents fostered my love of Nancy Drew and Christmas or my birthday would often produce yet another of Nancy’s mysteries for my reading enjoyment. But if not, no matter. I’d just read one of the ones I already had again. I didn’t care that I knew “whodunit”; I’d enjoy it the second (or third or fourth or fifth…) time, anyway.

So I was very excited a few months ago when I saw Girl Sleuth: Nancy Drew and the Women Who Created Her at the bookstore. I was sure it would be a great read for an all-grown-up Nancy Drew fan.

But alas, I just cannot read the whole thing.

First, the good:

The author seriously did her homework. It’s clear that she learned everything – everything - she could about the initial creator and pseudonymous authors of the Nancy Drew mysteries. Letters, newspaper articles, education, childhood anecdotes — she dug it all up.

But:

I’m afraid the author put way too much stuff in the book that is simply not needed. For example, as one of the key contributors to the Nancy Drew phenomenon began college, the women’s suffrage movement was in full swing. So the author pulled back from the immediate story and spent many pages talking about the history of the women’s suffrage movement, going all the way back to Abigail Adams. Unnecessary. Another time, when telling us about the first Nancy Drew author’s involvement in college athletics, we must take some time to learn about “women in sports,” female Olympiads, etc. Why? I’m not sure. All I know is that there were far more details than necessary for someone who really just wanted to know about Nancy Drew and the women who wrote her stories.

The book got high reviews on Amazon, so don’t take my word for it. Clearly, many readers aren’t bothered by rabbit trails and tangents, or extraneous information. Maybe it’s my natural aversion to reading all things history, I don’t know. (But in my defense, even my history-major husband assured me that when he’s reading a book on a certain topic, he appreciates the author actually staying on that topic.)

I will say that I’ve tried to read this book. I’ve made it the only book on my night-stand. I’ve forced myself to try to read a chapter a day. But it isn’t working. I cannot abide all the extra stuff.

And so, I’ve decided that I will skim and skip, reading passages that scratch my itch to know the story behind Nancy Drew (there are many of these) and ignoring passages that tell me things I didn’t really need to know about World War II, the Great Depression, or great leaps for women-kind (there are many of these, too). I don’t think I’ll be able to bring myself to actually cross the book off my Challenge list, since I’m not technically reading the whole thing. But for my own sanity, I just have to get through Girl Sleuth this way. Otherwise, I fear I’ll be stuck on this book forever.